Friday, February 10, 2012

The Readings

I realized I causally mentioned our readings in my last post and I never did do a post about what we chose. So, the first reading delivered by my dad will be an Irish Wedding Blessing. I love my Irish heritage, thoroughly enjoyed my time on the emerald isle and always dreamt of a St. Patrick's Day wedding. I'd heard the beginning many times, but never the complete prayer. Warning: you may cry (I do every time I read it).

May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon the fields.
May the light of friendship guide your paths together.
May the laughter of children grace the halls of your home.
May the joy of living for one another trip a smile from your lips,
A twinkle from your eye.
And when eternity beckons, at the end of a life heaped high with love,
May the good Lord embrace you with the arms that have nurtured you the whole length of your joy-filled days.
May the gracious God hold you both in the palm of His hands.
And, today, may the Spirit of Love find a dwelling place in your hearts.

Our second reading is from The Prophet by: Kahlil Gibran. This are his beautiful words on love abridged by Mike and I.

When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden.

For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.

All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.

But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
You shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.

Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.

Don't think we're all about making the guests cry I also enlisted my entire wedding party to each read a bit of an abridged version of Oh, The Places You'll Go at the reception to lead into toasts. I know everyone knows that one so I won't post it here. Oh, Dr. Seuss such wisdom.

1 comment:

  1. I love the idea of an Irish style wedding. I love the story of the claddagh and while it and many Irish blessings seem sad or full of strife it seems as though the feelings expressed are always those of merriment and cheers rather than sadness and tears. Aymee


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